Non-Monogamous Relationship Counseling
Non-monogamous relationships can be meaningful, expansive, and deeply connected. They can also be complicated. When there isn’t much cultural guidance around communication, boundaries, or emotional needs, it’s easy to feel unsure about how to move forward, even when everyone involved cares deeply.
Whether you’re opening your relationship, navigating an established dynamic, or finding yourselves stuck in patterns you don’t want to keep repeating, counseling can offer a place to slow things down and sort through what’s actually happening. This is a space where your relationship structure is respected and where care, consent, and connection are taken seriously.
I work with partners and polycules who want their relationships to feel more grounded, intentional, and sustainable. You don’t need to justify how your relationship looks, and you don’t need to have all the answers before you begin.
This might be a good fit if you’re:
• Opening your relationship and wanting support doing it thoughtfully and with care
• Navigating jealousy, insecurity, or attachment fears and wanting tools instead of shame
• Running into communication breakdowns, unclear boundaries, or emotional burnout
• Part of a polycule looking for a shared space where everyone can be heard
• Trying to make agreements that feel good and are realistic to maintain
If things feel messy or emotionally charged, that doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It usually means there’s more happening beneath the surface that needs space and attention.
What working together looks like
My approach is collaborative, grounded, and direct in a supportive way. Sessions are a place to slow down and understand what’s happening underneath conflict, reactivity, or shutdown, without turning it into a debate about who’s right or wrong.
We focus on patterns, emotional needs, and how communication tends to break down under stress. Over time, the work becomes less about managing crises and more about building steadier ways to repair, reconnect, and move forward together.
I draw from emotionally focused and attachment-based counseling, along with values-based and consent-centered approaches. I’m also sex-positive and kink-affirming, and comfortable holding conversations about intimacy, desire, power, and boundaries when those topics are part of the relationship picture. None of this is treated as something to fix or pathologize. It’s simply part of understanding how your relationships function.
Many of the people I work with are LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, or both, but there’s no requirement to identify any particular way to be here. I support people of all genders and backgrounds who are trying to build relationships with intention, honesty, and care.
While non-monogamous relationships are my specialty, I also work with monogamous couples who are drawn to an inclusive, emotionally attuned, and non-pathologizing approach to relationship counseling.
Helpful to know
• Sessions are $145 for two partners, with $25 per additional partner
• In-person sessions are available in St. Petersburg, Florida
• Virtual sessions are available for adults anywhere in Florida
• No insurance or diagnosis requirements